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Willie Trousselle's avatar

My wife gave me this quote when I started to speak out my truth about respecting women.

“If you want to know who your tribe is, speak your truth. Then see who sticks around. Those are the people who get a spot in your blanket fort” - Narea Hoffman

I was expelled from certain groups, some people called me names. But I am happier than ever. Stay true to yourself. Thank you for the reminder Robert.

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Greg PIrker's avatar

What you describe in your post is trash talk. It is as old as sports have been played in any capacity. When a player is more focused on an opposing player's behavior, they are not focused on the muscle memory they have created, essentially throwing off their game.

For the past 50+ years, I have been an athlete, coach, official, and now the parent of a collegiate athlete. My last go round was as the announcer for my son's Lacrosse games. I was proud to read this before every event:

Fans, good sportsmanship is learned, practiced, and executed. Respect for the opponent, spectators, coaches, AND our game officials is a must at all levels of athletics. By meeting the challenge of sportsmanship in the stands, you are providing a sound example for students and representing your community and school with dignity and pride.

I will be in the minority here, but your paid admission to your son's athletic event does not give you the right to treat the players, coaches, or officials with anything less than respect and dignity.

Bring your best to every game. Or stay home. No one on that field should be bullied, booed, or condescended to.

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